📋 How to Negotiate a Scene (A Simple Checklist)

The hottest scenes are the well-negotiated ones. Five minutes of talking beforehand makes everything safer and sexier. Run this checklist:

The checklist

• Desires: what do you each want out of this?
• Roles: who’s Dom, who’s sub, any personas?
• Activities: what’s on the menu — and what’s off?
• Limits: hard nos and soft maybes.
• Safeword + non-verbal signal.
• Health: injuries, triggers, anything to avoid.
• Aftercare: what does each of you need after?

Revisit it as you go — consent is ongoing, and desires evolve.