Kinks & Fetishes

#JOI

JOI (jerk-off instructions) is guided masturbation — a dominant narrates the pace, rules, and (dis)allowed release, live or to camera.

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What is JOI?

JOI is exactly what it says: a dominant gives step-by-step masturbation instructions — how fast, when to stop, when (or whether) to finish. The submissive gives up control of their own pleasure and simply obeys, which is the whole thrill.

It's a favorite in femdom and camming, and blends naturally with edging, tease and denial, and its cousin CEI.

It works solo-with-a-video or live with a partner, in person or long-distance — one of the easiest ways to add D/s to remote play. Rate the #joi gallery below.

JOI — FAQ

What does JOI stand for?

"Jerk-off instructions" — guided masturbation where a dominant directs the pace and rules. Related: CEI (cum-eating instructions) and edging/denial play.

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